I’m a sucker for a royal romance and there are few higher love tales than Charles and Camilla | Kate Waldegrave


“You’ll be able to have it for half value.”

I used to be at Collectorama, a classic honest in Nambour, Queensland, final week once I noticed the plate bearing the youthful effigy of (now) King Charles III, issued for his first marriage.

There was no query I used to be going to purchase it, however such a hefty low cost made me suspicious. I ran my fingers across the fringe of the plate, feeling for chips within the porcelain.

“Are you certain you wouldn’t want the Diana plate?” the seller requested, gesturing in direction of the plate subsequent to it. I politely declined and handed over my cash.

Whereas the lady was wrapping my plate in brown paper she remarked in a tone of resignation, “Nicely, I assume he will probably be our King sometime.”

I don’t assume both of us realised that point would come solely six days later.


I’ve all the time been a hopeless romantic. I’m fond of affection tales and I particularly love tales of turbulent, wholly consuming amorous affairs. Love so intoxicating you possibly can’t eat or sleep and as an alternative write lustful poems and look at life by means of a soft-focus Vaseline lens.

I firmly imagine there isn’t a higher love story than that of King Edward VIII and American double divorcee Wallis Simpson. All the facility, cash and jewels on this planet couldn’t assuage his want to be with the lady he liked, even when that meant abdicating and dwelling in exile, by no means in a position to freely return to his beloved homeland. Are you able to think about somebody abdicating the throne for you? I don’t assume there’s a higher declaration of affection.

However the second-greatest love story, one that’s vastly underappreciated, is that of Charles and Camilla.

All through his life, Charles’ relationships have been laid naked, typically in intrusive element. Camilla and Charles dated within the early Nineteen Seventies however royal protocol deemed Camilla to be an unsuitable candidate because the spouse of the inheritor to the throne.

Everyone knows what occurred subsequent.

Having endured years being unfairly maligned for her position in Charles’ failed marriage to Diana, she remained stoically by his aspect. Divorce, even within the early 2000s, was nonetheless taboo within the royal household, so marriage to a divorcee was utterly out of the query. That was till 2005 once they had been lastly granted permission to marry in a civil ceremony. I’ve been a fan of them (and Camilla’s resplendent feathered wedding ceremony headdress) ever since.

Charles and Camilla on their wedding ceremony day. {Photograph}: Alastair Grant/PA

Their affection for one another is apparent, and in his first handle as King this week she topped the roll name: “I depend on the loving assist of my darling spouse Camilla.”

In 2012, forward of their first tour of Australia as a married couple, tabloid media started whipping up a frenzy of spiteful headlines and rumours.

Eternally within the shadow of Diana’s loss of life, public sentiment in direction of Camilla had been festering away and the venom directed in direction of her was abhorrent and unjustified.

And so I wrote to HRH, not in a sycophantic or obsequious method, however to say that not everybody felt this manner in direction of his spouse and there was not less than one one that wasn’t going to throw eggs at them on the steps of the Sydney Opera Home.

A number of weeks later a letter got here within the submit.

Letter from Charles to Kate Waldegrave
Letter from Charles to Kate Waldegrave

Amongst my different prized possessions, a 500-piece jigsaw puzzle I purchased in an op-shop to commemorate their wedding ceremony. It had all of the items however once I went to assemble it throughout lockdown in 2020 it appeared the earlier homeowners defaced it with moustaches. The cheek!

Charles and Camilla puzzle
A 500-piece Charles and Camilla jigsaw puzzle. {Photograph}: Kate Waldegrave

Within the absence of another wedding ceremony memorabilia I took it upon myself to, ahem, redesign a biscuit tin from his 1981 marriage. Sadly, it got here into contact with water in some unspecified time in the future and Camilla’s face is now a fluorescent shade of purple. I exploit my tin solely to maintain Easter eggs on my desk at work.

Charles and Camilla biscuit tin
The repurposed Charles and Camilla biscuit tin. {Photograph}: Kate Waldegrave

Charles and Camilla returned to Australia once more in 2015. I requested my then boss if I might take an prolonged lunch break on the day they had been in Martin Place in Sydney. She didn’t even have to ask why. “God you’re bizarre! Go on!”

I weaved my manner by means of the group to make it to the entrance. Charles was affected person as he shook fingers all the way in which down Pitt Avenue. “Is Camilla coming over this manner?” I requested a member of his safety element standing close by. “Sorry, they had been working late and are doing one aspect every at the moment.” I used to be a little bit upset. “What’s she prefer to work for?” I requested. A broad smile washed throughout his face. “She’s nice. She has a terrific sense of humour!”

Charles in Sydney in 2015.
Charles in Sydney in 2015. {Photograph}: Kate Waldegrave

Whereas we had been driving the opposite night time I requested my husband, “Would you abdicate for me?”

The reply got here instantly.

“After all, my darling.”



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